The Thing No One Talks About When Women Try to Lose Weight

She came to me through my weight loss practice.

From the outside, she looked like she had it all together.

Big house.

Beautiful family.

Six-figure career.

One of those women you’d assume never struggles.

But during her intake session, I asked something most doctors skip.

“How much support can your friends provide as you try to lose weight?”

She looked down for a second, almost embarrassed.

Then quietly said:

“None. Not really.”

And I’ve seen it enough now to know.

She’s not the exception.

She’s the rule.

These are high-achieving women.

They run teams.

Volunteer at school.

Hold everyone else down.

But when they finally try to focus on their health?

They’re doing it alone.

Their partners say they’re “fine the way they are.”

And no one checks in to ask, “Hey, how’s it going?”

I see this all the time.

High-achieving women.

Who carry everyone else’s load.

Who say “yes” to everything, except their own health.

And when they finally try to prioritize themselves?

The support dries up.

Meanwhile, behind the scenes…

They’re in the closet trying to squeeze into jeans that fit last month.

They step on the scale and hope it hasn’t moved in the wrong direction.

And worst of all?

They have to act like none of it bothers them.

Because no one around them gets it.

Not their friends.

Not their partner.

Not even the doctor who only talks about calories and “trying harder.”

Support shouldn’t be optional.

It shouldn’t be something you have to hunt down to heal.

But sometimes it is.

And when it doesn’t come from the people closest to you?

That doesn’t mean you stop.

It means you find new support.

From women who do understand.

Who’ve been there.

And who are ready to walk beside you.

Not behind you silently judging.

If you feel like no one sees how hard this is?

Please know:

You’re not crazy.

You’re not weak.

And you’re definitely not alone.

You just haven’t had the right kind of support yet.

But that can change.

Rooting for you,

Dr. Beckford

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