The Compounding Effect of Burnout: Are You Too Good?

People pretend burnout happens suddenly.

It’s rarely ever sudden and that’s why it’s dangerous

It’s often a slow burn.

The kind that creeps up on you, sneaky and subtle, while you’re busy killing it at work, managing family life, and keeping a million plates spinning. 

You're handling everything. Work, family, social obligations. 

At first, it’s tough, but manageable. 

You're the go-to person, the one who always gets things done. 

You’ve convinced yourself, “I got this,” but over time, you notice something’s different. 

A shift you can’t quite put your finger on.

Ever find yourself thinking:

• I’m just tired this week. 
• Once things settle down, I’ll focus on me.
• I’ll get back to my routine after this big project. 

Here’s the catch: Those little promises you make to yourself? 

They’re like putting off payments on a loan. 

Each “I’ll deal with it later” is like adding interest, compounding over time. 

Before you know it, you’ve accumulated a massive burnout debt—and no one gave you the warning.

You’d think burnout would be obvious, right?

But here’s what no one tells you.

Women who are the most capable, the ones holding everything together, are often the last to realize they’re on the brink of burnout.

Why?

Because we’re too good at pushing through.

Think about it—our superpower is resilience. 

We handle the crises. We solve problems. We manage everyone’s needs. 

And then, after the chaos, instead of hitting the brakes, we just keep going.

The very thing that makes you strong—the ability to manage stress, juggle responsibilities, and keep going—becomes the reason you don’t see burnout coming.

That’s the compounding effect of burnout.

It’s subtle at first, but it builds, gaining momentum until you hit a point where you’re done. 

You may already be closer to burnout than you think. 

I know that sounds dramatic, but ask yourself these questions:

• Are you too exhausted to enjoy time with the people you love?  
• Do you dread Mondays—or worse, feel no excitement for anything at all? 
• Are you finding it hard to get out of bed, even after a full night’s sleep?  

If you nodded along to any of these, there’s a good chance burnout’s already knocking at your door. 

You don’t have to open it. 

Here's how you flip the script.

The good news is that just like burnout compounds over time, so do small, positive changes. 

You don’t have to wait until you’re completely tapped out to make a shift. 

In fact, the earlier you start, the easier it is to stop burnout from taking over.

Here’s how you can start breaking the burnout cycle:

1. Check your energy meter every day.  

Women are experts at brushing off tiredness. 

But those little moments of exhaustion  and irritability? 

They’re not just “normal.” 

Start paying attention to how you’re really feeling, instead of powering through. 

If you’re feeling off, it’s a signal to slow down, not speed up.

2. Stop waiting for things to “calm down.  

There’s always another deadline, another responsibility. 

Waiting for the “right time” to take care of yourself is like waiting for a unicorn to show up. 

You have to *create* those moments for yourself—even if it’s just 10 minutes in your day to breathe, stretch, or do something just for you.

3. Ask for help.

This is a big one.

The time to ask for help isn’t when you’re at your breaking point—it’s before you reach it. 

Whether it’s therapy, coaching, or just venting to a friend, don’t wait until you’re in full burnout mode to lean on others.

If burnout compounds over time, so does *self-care*. 

It’s not about making huge, sweeping changes overnight. 

It’s about stacking up small wins, day after day, until you’ve got enough in your tank to feel like yourself again. 

A 10-minute walk today. 

A quick journaling session tomorrow. 

Little by little, those moments of care will add up and start pulling you out of that burnout cycle.

So, let me ask you—are you ready to start stacking the odds in your favor?

Whenever you’re ready,  I’m here to help.

Always wishing you the best,  

Dr. Beckford

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